Bullying tries to change how others see you. Gaslighting tries to change how you see yourself. They are often entwined in abuse cultures. Bullying occurs when the perpetrator says: “she is deranged.... Read more »
Bullying—going against our innate nature—may use kindness to manipulate. Kindness is called “nature’s medicine” by researchers because it produces the hormone oxytocin which is now recognized to have significant healing and health... Read more »