An Airbag of Loving Aunties: Reflections on Gratitude

A few hours before I crashed my car, I was horizontal on the floor of a friend’s house being purified by fire. At least, that was what the card I’d drawn from... Read more »

Arranged vs. Free-Choice Marriages: Which Are Most Loving?

Throughout history, across hundreds of cultures worldwide, male-female marriage has been almost ubiquitous. From ancient times until the 17th century, almost all marriages were arranged by the future spouses’ families. Love between... Read more »
Why Loving Your Child Isn’t Enough to Change Behavior

Why Loving Your Child Isn’t Enough to Change Behavior

Most parents love their children deeply. That is rarely in question. What I see again and again in my clinical work is not a lack of love, but a deep uncertainty about... Read more »
When Loving Them Feels Like Abandoning Yourself

When Loving Them Feels Like Abandoning Yourself

Self-abandonment rarely begins as a conscious choice. Instead, it is something that emerges gradually and is often disguised as selflessness, loyalty, or even emotional maturity. You learn to adapt, wait, explain, and... Read more »
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