People-pleasing contains immense hope, but it’s also conflict-averse. Within that hope is a magical idea, indicating that if one were to perfectly adapt to their environment, everything would “turn out fine.” The... Read more »
Perfectionism, people-pleasing, and chronic self-sacrifice imply a just world, one wherein merits, accountability, and humility are always rewarded. The irony is that for many perfectionists, these worlds are just ideals, with little... Read more »
Many autistic people know the feeling of always saying “yes” – even when every part of them wants to say “no.” You might go out of your way to keep others happy,... Read more »