What’s Your Secret? Asking About Strength, Not Symptoms

What’s Your Secret? Asking About Strength, Not Symptoms

When I first meet a patient, I ask a question that often catches them off guard: “What’s your secret?” Specifically, I’ll ask, “Given everything you’ve described—the stress, losses, or hardships that brought... Read more »
The Conrad Fisher Effect | Psychology Today

The Conrad Fisher Effect | Psychology Today

It started out as any of my typical elliptical exercise sessions begin. I had just ended one show and was looking for something to pass the time. I had remembered the pretty... Read more »
4 Hidden Resentments That Can Ruin a Relationship

4 Hidden Resentments That Can Ruin a Relationship

When people fall out of love, we often assume it to be the result of one key, monumental mistake. However, upon closer examination, a common pattern emerges. In most cases, there is... Read more »
Dating Without Drama: Modern Trends Support Mental Health

Dating Without Drama: Modern Trends Support Mental Health

It may be dating fatigue, or it may be the economy, but modern trends in dating have taken hold. Cultural shifts, continuing economic uncertainty, and a growing focus on mental health also... Read more »
Adapting and Creating Family Rituals

Adapting and Creating Family Rituals

Family rituals are routines and traditions that honor what is very important to the family (Rothenbuhler, 1998). Rituals include family traditions, such as the specific ways we celebrate holidays, birthdays, vacations, weddings,... Read more »
Why Rejection Is a Worthy Goal

Why Rejection Is a Worthy Goal

Early in her career, USA Today best-selling author Emma Grey felt like rejection would break her. Today, she’s made rejection something to reach for. The fear of rejection is evolutionary—we are hardwired... Read more »
Why Is It So Hard to Forgive a Person Who Does Not Apologize?

Why Is It So Hard to Forgive a Person Who Does Not Apologize?

“No way,” She looked at me with angry eyes. We had talked about her anger toward her mother several times. She had no solutions. When I suggested the idea of forgiveness, without... Read more »
The Tyranny of Clocks and Comparison

The Tyranny of Clocks and Comparison

We often talk about goals as if they exist on a universal schedule. From the time we’re young, we absorb unspoken expectations about when things should happen: graduate by ___, build a... Read more »
Why Some Therapy Clients Share Gently but Feel Deeply

Why Some Therapy Clients Share Gently but Feel Deeply

She walked into the room with a polite smile, placing her backpack carefully beside the chair as if not to disturb anything. When I asked how her week had been, she answered... Read more »
Estrogen Finally OK’d (Again) By FDA

Estrogen Finally OK’d (Again) By FDA

There’s big, positive health news: The FDA has removed the warning label on estrogen therapies for menopause. That “black box” warning has discouraged a generation of physicians from prescribing estrogen to relieve... Read more »
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