This post is Part 1 of a series that will examine the nature of what I refer to as clinical wisdom and provide specific concrete examples of some of these esoteric secrets... Read more »
Most people believe they want the truth. I’m not so sure. I think what many of us really want is to be right. The distinction may seem subtle, but it has enormous... Read more »
Way back in 2008, an amazing thing happened that changed everything. It changed the way I saw myself and parented my children. Ultimately, it changed the way I practice psychology. Here’s what... Read more »
Marcus, a COO I worked with, had just helped carry his company through a major acquisition. Millions of dollars secured, a decade of effort proven out, every external marker of success… yet... Read more »
Emotional dynamics include the function and utility of emotions. Awareness of emotional dynamics can help us avoid conflicts within ourselves and with other people. Importance Emotions create importance. To paraphrase Silvan Tomkins:... Read more »
Have you ever worried that your “gut feelings” or hidden biases are making choices for you before you even have a chance to think? It is a common frustration, especially when you... Read more »
Imagine standing at the entrance of a gym with a clear goal in mind. Yet, an invisible wall keeps you from taking that first step forward. This is a common experience for... Read more »
Many people take pride in describing themselves as rational. They see it as evidence of discipline, intelligence, and emotional maturity. In professional settings, especially, rationality is treated as a virtue that separates... Read more »
Caring is usually seen as an unquestioned virtue. We admire the devoted partner, the endlessly patient friend, and the person who is always available in a crisis. But in adult relationships, caring... Read more »
KEY DISCOVERIES The State-Trait Paradox: Scientists found that while people who struggle with “Negative Automatic Thoughts” (worry and rumination) often report high body awareness over time, these two systems actually competitively shut... Read more »