When Risk Feels Like Help, That’s the Risk

When Risk Feels Like Help, That’s the Risk

Last night I was in a room of therapists, researchers, and digital mental health people in the Bay Area. Smart, interesting people. One thing kept surfacing across every conversation: We are playing... Read more »
Why the Hantavirus Outbreak Feels Different

Why the Hantavirus Outbreak Feels Different

The global hantavirus outbreak highlights one of the hardest tasks in public health: communicating uncertainty without creating either panic or false reassurance. That challenge becomes especially difficult during outbreaks caused by rare... Read more »
Why Self-Care Feels Wrong When You’re a Perfectionist

Why Self-Care Feels Wrong When You’re a Perfectionist

Perfectionists are often more concerned with goals and accomplishments than with their own well-being. Sometimes, we’re so busy trying to please people, avoid criticism, and prove we’re “good enough” that we don’t... Read more »
When the World Feels Too Much: Understanding “Oscillanguish”

When the World Feels Too Much: Understanding “Oscillanguish”

There are moments in history when emotional life cannot be understood at the level of the individual alone. We often ask, “What’s going on with me?” but a more accurate question might... Read more »
Why Infertility Feels So Hard as a Couple

Why Infertility Feels So Hard as a Couple

“Holy moly. Neither of us signed up for this.” —Anonymous Infertility does not just happen to one person. It happens to a relationship. Starting a family begins as a shared dream, but... Read more »
When Asking for Help Feels Unsafe

When Asking for Help Feels Unsafe

What if asking for help isn’t just difficult, but doesn’t feel safe? Oregon quarterback Dante Moore recently shared, in a letter to Oregon Governor Tina Kotek reported by ESPN, that early in... Read more »
When Even a Neuroscientist Feels Overwhelmed

When Even a Neuroscientist Feels Overwhelmed

I’ll start with some radical honesty: Coping right now is hard work for me. As tensions rise globally, it can feel as if we’re teetering on the edge of catastrophe. Even after... Read more »
Why Neurodivergent Rejection Feels Like Scar Tissue

Why Neurodivergent Rejection Feels Like Scar Tissue

Imagine walking into a meeting and seeing two colleagues whispering. For many, it is a minor curiosity. For someone with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), it can feel like a physical blow to... Read more »
When Loving Them Feels Like Abandoning Yourself

When Loving Them Feels Like Abandoning Yourself

Self-abandonment rarely begins as a conscious choice. Instead, it is something that emerges gradually and is often disguised as selflessness, loyalty, or even emotional maturity. You learn to adapt, wait, explain, and... Read more »
Why No Contact Feels Worse Than Staying With a Toxic Person

Why No Contact Feels Worse Than Staying With a Toxic Person

People often feel embarrassed when they struggle to go no contact with a toxic or narcissistic person. Friends may say, “Just block them,” or “Why don’t you walk away already?” To others,... Read more »
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