Why Teaching Consent Isn’t Enough to End Sexual Violence

As a sex therapist and an educator, I keep thinking about what the “Cornell 7” case is illuminating. A brief overview: A woman, publicly identified as Jane Doe, has sued Cornell and... Read more »

Resistance Isn’t a Human Flaw, It’s a Feature

I’ve watched four YouTube videos, done a load of laundry, and scored some amazing deals online, getting ready to write this post. Or I might say, avoiding writing this post. So, I... Read more »

When Understanding Yourself Isn’t Enough

I work with a lot of smart people. And I’m not just saying that because I like to think that I must be smart if smart clients want to work with me.... Read more »

The Opposite of People Pleasing Isn’t Saying No

Adam Grant’s recent Substack, “The Truth About People Pleasing,” got 1,000+ likes for a reason: it offers a useful corrective to the ways many of us learn to go along to get... Read more »
The “I’m Bored” Trap Isn’t About Your Kid’s Brain

The “I’m Bored” Trap Isn’t About Your Kid’s Brain

We’ve all been here. You’re standing in the kitchen, dinner is half-cooked, and your child wanders in, drops his arms like lead weights, and lets out those two dreaded words: “I’m bored.”... Read more »
When Summer Isn’t Relaxing | Psychology Today

When Summer Isn’t Relaxing | Psychology Today

For many families, summer is associated with freedom, relaxation, and a welcome break from the demands of the school year. Yet for some children and teens, the transition from the structure of... Read more »
Your Anxious Child Isn’t the Problem. Your Reassurance Is

Your Anxious Child Isn’t the Problem. Your Reassurance Is

Most parents think they are solving anxiety by answering each question thoroughly and carefully. But each reassurance becomes a “tiny rep” in the overthinking gym. The child’s brain learns that uncertainty is... Read more »
When Your Teen “Isn’t Paying Attention”

When Your Teen “Isn’t Paying Attention”

If you have a teenager, their teachers (or you) have probably said it: “Pay attention.”“Focus.”“Why are you so distracted?” After hearing these corrections repeatedly, many teens begin to draw painful conclusions about... Read more »
6 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Ready for Commitment

6 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Ready for Commitment

In any new relationship, there’s a period of time in which both individuals have the chance to decide how serious this relationship will become. Casey and Morgan were both single when a... Read more »
When It Comes to Eyes, Lighter Isn’t Always Better

When It Comes to Eyes, Lighter Isn’t Always Better

Bright, clear eyes often give the impression of youth, energy, and health. Red or yellowish eyes may suggest tiredness or illness. Blue eyes are often romanticized in films, paintings, and popular culture.... Read more »
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