On average, adults make approximately 35,000 daily decisions, largely based upon desires and, we hope, values as well. “Desire is boundless, infusing every aspect of our lives,” writes Jay Stringer in Desire:... Read more »
Warmth is an essential ingredient of healthy relationships. The warmer we are toward each other, the stronger our bonds become in our romantic relationships, families, and friendships, leading to a higher overall... Read more »
I have noticed that many of my clients face different versions of the same recurring interpersonal problem. Each time it occurs, they treat it as if it were unexpected and something entirely... Read more »
When people fall out of love, we often assume it to be the result of one key, monumental mistake. However, upon closer examination, a common pattern emerges. In most cases, there is... Read more »
One of the most popular concepts in relationship counseling, the idea of speaking the same “love language” as your romantic partner, is widely and unquestioningly accepted. Simply put, a love language is... Read more »
A new tragedy is being mourned over on TikTok when it comes to modern love. It’s a sense of power dynamics known as the “swag gap.” This specifically refers to a subtle... Read more »
According to relationship expert Esther Perel, the very language intended to help couples—psychological jargon, or “therapy-speak” – can become a powerful destroyer of intimacy. You’ve likely experienced the frustration: trying to solve... Read more »
If you’re in a long-distance relationship (LDR), you know the commitment is immense. You’re pouring your energy, hope, and emotional investment into a connection that, by its nature, comes with high uncertainty.... Read more »
Do you often assume your partner is angry when they’re quiet, or fear the worst after a minor disagreement? This is common in relationships, and the way we think may be to... Read more »
Most of us grow up believing that conflict is the enemy of love. We imagine that a good relationship is one in which partners rarely argue, never hurt each other’s feelings, and... Read more »