I Am There for You, but You Are Not There for Me

You wear your heart on your sleeve, and you would do anything for a loved one. Yet, you rarely get the same support in return. You recognize that scorekeeping or having a... Read more »

Beyond Symptom Relief: Psychodynamic Therapy for Anxiety

People generally use the word anxiety to refer to their feelings of excessive worry, fear, restlessness, or physical arousal. Most of my patients understand that “rationally” their fears are disproportionate or that... Read more »

How I Manage Being an Autistic PhD Student

As I approach the one-year mark of my doctoral journey, I have found myself reflecting deeply on what it means to navigate higher education as an autistic researcher. My PhD research focuses... Read more »

The Quiet Destruction of Curiosity by AI Assistants

It’s hard to overstate how important the cultivation of curiosity is to our well-being. People who regularly make efforts to cultivate their curiosity “muscle” tend to be smarter, more creative, and more... Read more »

Leaders Can Change Their Blindspots: It Starts With Behavior

Can people really change? When asked, we say, “Yes!” We are obviously not the same person we were 10 years ago. But surveys say: “Not so much.” When researchers ask people if... Read more »

Are You Coping with a Problem, or Just Passively Tolerating It?

I recently had a session with a client who came in to work on her fear of flying. We started taking the fear apart, and within half an hour it was clear... Read more »

AI Has Memory and Humans Have Consequences

Human intelligence and artificial intelligence don’t differ simply in how they think. They differ in what happens after a thought is made. For years, I’ve called these two forms of cognition different... Read more »

Transitional Objects and Memory | Psychology Today

Interestingly, it often turns out that issues in everyday life provide remarkable insights into psychology, psychoanalysis, and the internal working of the mind. I will start with the concept of transitional objects,... Read more »

Loss, Grief, and Eventually Joy Once Again

Over the course of my ten years of Psychology Today submissions, I have explored various topics within my own life’s journey. One of the most profound for me and my readers has... Read more »

Limerence and the Perils of Hopeless Longing

Someone I know well recently attended a Buddhist retreat at which they described their heartbreak at learning a person they were in love with—a person with whom they knew they had no... Read more »
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