What do a murderous silent era movie star and the first female gondolier have in common? What they share is that they never were. Fatty Arbuckle didn’t murder actress Virginia Rappe, and... Read more »
Dependence is the state of relying on someone or something to help improve your functioning. Dependence may be reasonable or unreasonable. Here are the good, the bad, and the ugly aspects of... Read more »
In my last post, I shared an example of a woman who broke, mentally, physically, and spiritually. I described the moment when her body took over and announced that it couldn’t take... Read more »
George Soros built one of the great trading records in financial history, in large part due to his theory of reflexivity. But by his own account, some of his biggest portfolio pivots... Read more »
You wear your heart on your sleeve, and you would do anything for a loved one. Yet, you rarely get the same support in return. You recognize that scorekeeping or having a... Read more »
People generally use the word anxiety to refer to their feelings of excessive worry, fear, restlessness, or physical arousal. Most of my patients understand that “rationally” their fears are disproportionate or that... Read more »
As I approach the one-year mark of my doctoral journey, I have found myself reflecting deeply on what it means to navigate higher education as an autistic researcher. My PhD research focuses... Read more »
It’s hard to overstate how important the cultivation of curiosity is to our well-being. People who regularly make efforts to cultivate their curiosity “muscle” tend to be smarter, more creative, and more... Read more »
Can people really change? When asked, we say, “Yes!” We are obviously not the same person we were 10 years ago. But surveys say: “Not so much.” When researchers ask people if... Read more »
I recently had a session with a client who came in to work on her fear of flying. We started taking the fear apart, and within half an hour it was clear... Read more »