The Quiet Destruction of Curiosity by AI Assistants

It’s hard to overstate how important the cultivation of curiosity is to our well-being. People who regularly make efforts to cultivate their curiosity “muscle” tend to be smarter, more creative, and more... Read more »

Leaders Can Change Their Blindspots: It Starts With Behavior

Can people really change? When asked, we say, “Yes!” We are obviously not the same person we were 10 years ago. But surveys say: “Not so much.” When researchers ask people if... Read more »

Are You Coping with a Problem, or Just Passively Tolerating It?

I recently had a session with a client who came in to work on her fear of flying. We started taking the fear apart, and within half an hour it was clear... Read more »

AI Has Memory and Humans Have Consequences

Human intelligence and artificial intelligence don’t differ simply in how they think. They differ in what happens after a thought is made. For years, I’ve called these two forms of cognition different... Read more »

Transitional Objects and Memory | Psychology Today

Interestingly, it often turns out that issues in everyday life provide remarkable insights into psychology, psychoanalysis, and the internal working of the mind. I will start with the concept of transitional objects,... Read more »

Loss, Grief, and Eventually Joy Once Again

Over the course of my ten years of Psychology Today submissions, I have explored various topics within my own life’s journey. One of the most profound for me and my readers has... Read more »

Limerence and the Perils of Hopeless Longing

Someone I know well recently attended a Buddhist retreat at which they described their heartbreak at learning a person they were in love with—a person with whom they knew they had no... Read more »

Overparenting: When Giving Is Really a Form of Taking

I recently rewatched Disney’s Tangled and had some difficulty articulating exactly why Mother Gothel was so evil and not a remarkably devoted parent. While she does keep Rapunzel in a tower, she... Read more »

Move More, Worry Less? | Psychology Today

For years, conversations about youth mental health have focused on therapy, medication, screen time, and social media. Yet one of the most accessible interventions may be hiding in plain sight: exercise. A... Read more »

Donor Conception and the Fear of Not Belonging

Donor conception can offer a way forward after infertility has closed a door that many never imagined would close. But hope is not always the only thing that appears. For most intended... Read more »
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